Here are some examples of words of affirmation you can use in romantic or platonic relationships: For a friend, words of affirmation could mean a text to say “You’ll be great!” before a job interview or complimenting them on their outfit. What matters is that you acknowledge them through words.įor a partner, it could mean telling them you love them more often or checking in throughout the day to tell them you’re thinking of them. If you have trouble expressing yourself out loud, write a note or send a text. The key to using words of affirmation is to be your authentic self and express them often. This may be one of your love languages if you thrive on: The first love language is words of affirmation, and it’s all about expressing affection and appreciation through words, be it spoken, written, in texts, or all of the above.

Surprise them with gifts outside of special occasions, bring home their favorite treat, buy or make them gifts that are personal

You pride yourself on giving thoughtful gifts, you most appreciate meaningful gifts Tangible tokens of love and thoughtfulness Make them meals, take on a chore or two around the house, draw them baths You’re happy when someone helps without being asked, actions speak louder than words for you Selfless, thoughtful acts that make a person’s life easier Hold hands, be generous with affection and other types of PDA, prioritize sex if it’s important in the relationship You’re a “touchy-feely” person, you feel most loved when embraced or touched Have date nights, turn off your phones when you’re together, sit together and talk about your daysĬonnection through appropriate physical touch (nonsexual or sexual) You make time for others, you feel disconnected when you don’t spend enough time together Giving another person your undivided attention Say - and mean - more I love you’s, thank you’s, you matter to me’s, and the like

You like hearing “I love you” often, you thrive when you’re encouraged by others Verbal expressions of love, appreciation, and encouragement

Dr gary chapman the 5 love languages